Self Confidence

Surely everyone wants to be successful and I also really really want to be successful woman. But to achieve it all, we need to seriously pray, learn, and work. And also don't forget about SELF CONFIDENCE. 
I typed in capital letters, because i't's one of very important aspect that we must have in every our actions.

First of all I will explain about Self Confidence.
Self-confidence is one aspect of personality that is very important in human life. Self confident people are confident about their own abilities and have realistic expectations, even when their expectations are not realized, they stayed positive and can take it.

Self-confidence is a mental or psychological condition of a person who gives a strong confidence in him to do or perform any act. People who do not believe in themselves have a negative self-concept, lack of confidence in his ability, because it is often kept to them. Self confidence is a mental or psychological condition, which individuals can evaluate the entirety of her strong belief in giving him the ability to take action in achieving various goals in life.
People who have good self-confidence, they have positive feelings toward themselves, have strong beliefs on him and had accurate knowledge of the capabilities. People who have good self-confidence are not the only person who feels capable of (but not really afford) but is a person who knows that he can be caused by experience and calculation that he did.
Synonyms:  aplomb, inner strength, positive self-image, self-assurance

Personality traits of people with low self-confidence
When this is linked to the practice of everyday life, people who have low self-confidence or have lost confidence, tend to feel / be as below:
• Do not have anything (desires, goals, targets) which fought energetically
• Do not have a decision to step decisive
• Easily frustrated or give up when faced with a problem or difficulty
• Less motivated to go forward, laziness or half and half
• Often fails to accomplish its tasks or responsibilities
• Awkward in dealing with people
• Can not demonstrate the ability to speak and the ability to listen to a convincing
• Often have unrealistic expectations
• Too perfectionist
• Too sensitive

Help: low self-confindence
Counselling,  life coaching, and hypnotherapy are common therapies used to help improve self-confidence.

I wish, we can keep our self confidence everyday. see ya!

~によって

Expresses a method, cause, case.
Formula:











 
Example:
彼は努力によって病気を克服下。（＝努力して）
Through his effort, he conquered his illness.
 
人によって考え方が違います。（＝ 人が違えば）
Opinions differ depending on the person.

台風によって屋根が飛ばされた。（＝台風で）
 The typhoon blew the roof away.

~こそ

Used to expresses emphasis.

Example:

明日こそ勉強するぞ！（あしたはきっと）
I will definitely study tomorrow!

愛情があるからこそ、しかるんです。（＝本当にあるから）
The reason I get so angry is because I care so much about you.

~さえ

 ひらがなさえ書けないんですから,漢字なんて書　（＝ひらがなも）
I can't even write hiragana, so I of course I can't write kanji characters.

そんなこと、子供でさえ知っている。（＝子供でも）
Even children know that.

Vようとしない

To indicate present continuous.

れい：
「ポチ、どうしたんだろう。ご飯を食べようとしないんだよ。」　＝（食べるつもりがない）
Pochi, what's wrong with you? He hasn't been eating all.

彼は、自分のことは何も言おうとしない。 ＝（言うつもりがない）
He doesn't talk about himself.

Vれてしまった

Showing a difficult situation as a result of something.

れい：
友達の赤ちゃんを 抱っこしたら、泣かれてしまった。
Tomodachi no akachan o dakkoushitara, nakareteshimatta.
When I held my friend's baby, it cried.

雨に降られて、服がぬれてしまった。
ame ni furarete, fuku ga nurete shimatta.
My clothes got soaked in the rain.

～までもない : ～ made mo nai : Needn't __________

～までもない : ～ made mo nai

Needn't __________

Pola:
(verb dictionary) + までもない

Meaning:
To state things mentioned before 「までもない」 needn't or unimportant to do

For example:
ただ子供の喧嘩だよ。親たちが口を出すまでもない。
Tada  kodomo no kenkada yo. Oyatachi ga kuchiwodasu made mo nai.
Just squabbling children. Parents needn't to intervene.

雨に降られてちょっと風邪を引いただけよ。病院に行くまでもない。
Ame ni furarete chotto kaze o hiita dake yo. Byouin ni iku made mo nai.
I am just rained upon and i just got a little cold. Needn't to go to the hospital.

Set OS language to Indonesian

Here i'll give you some steps to change your language on OS windows 7 to Indonesian.

1. First, you must set your language OS to default language. 
For example if you bought an English's PC, you must set its language to English. If you bought a Japan's PC, you must set its language to Japanese. 

2. You must download Indonesian installer.
click on this link: 

http://windows.microsoft.com/en-US/windows/language-packs

then download it, look at the picture below

After that, an installer box will be appear 



do steps like the pictures below
 
 
 

i'm so sorry this tutorial is very brief, 'cause I'm sleepy. may be useful. :) jaa ne